Do you wonder if your partner is cheating? Have you tried to really talk it out? First try to talk about your own faults. That will get rid of someone’s defenses. Try to talk about your own mistakes and issues. This can be a way to really help someone open up.

There are signs about someone cheating. For example, evasiveness of the eyes. Also, hours being different than in past and a certain type of jumpiness or being on edge. Communication is the best way to talk it out and get further.

As a therapist, I have found people differ in their ability to forgive and let go. You have to evaluate whether or not the relationship was meaningful lately or if it’s been deteriorating over a period of time. How do you feel about the person? Can what’s missing in the relationship be repaired or have you changed too much or has the other person gone through major changes? If one person makes a total life change such as getting very religious or going through a total shift in lifestyle then you have to see if you can find a bond within this.

You can read an interesting approach here towards repairing your marriage: Save Your Marriage

It takes work so don’t give up .

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